“This gives control to both of you, but with different aspects.” The receiving partner can control “speed and penetration,” she says, while the peneetrating partner gets to “touch and tease your partner while they try to control other things.” “This position has excellent clitoral access, and it’s great for G-spot stimulation,” psychotherapist and therapeutic relationship coach Rachel Wright tells SheKnows. Their partner kneels over their lap and starts hugging them with their thighs as the vagina-owner starts to lower themselves down. The rocking horse position is when the penetrating partner sits cross-legged and leans back, either on a wall or supporting themselves with their hands. Bonus: It also allows for easy clitoral access, so use hands or bring a vibrator into the mix. This position allows for deep, hands-free penetration and the perfect angle to hit the front wall of the vagina where the G-spot is. Bring your knees up slightly and have them enter you from behind. Lie on your side and have the penetrating partner be the big spoon. Jess recommends grinding in this position until you find the perfect angle, while Switzer suggests a gliding motion rather than up and down, which gives “the added bonus of clitoral stimulation.” This cowgirl-like position allows the receiving partner being penetrated to control the depth and angle of penetration and move their body as they please, essentially using the penis as a sex toy. “Sitting on top of a partner may be the best way to stimulate your G-Spot, as you can control the angle of penetration,” Dr. Straddle them and lower yourself down and onto them. This works best against a wall, headboard or other hard surfaces. Have your penetrating partner sit at a 45-degree angle. With that said, here are six sex positions that encourage just the right angle, depth and control for mind-blowing G-spot orgasms.Ī version of this story was published October 2018. (Pro tip: use toys to truly level-up the experience.)Īs with all sex and sexual positions, be sure to give your partner plenty of feedback and modify the positions as needed. We consulted the experts to find the best positions for stimulating your G-spot, so if you’re interested in trying to see if you can squirt or really like the feeling of penetration, these positions will totally be your vibe. Jess, stimulating it through sex is all about finding the right positions to illicit that delicious sensation. Since the G-spot is relatively shallow (not deep in the vagina), per Dr. Jess), PhD, Astroglide’s resident sexologist, tells SheKnows. “Some people experience it as erogenous and some do not - just like some of us enjoy having our feet rubbed and others find foot rubs annoying,” Jess O’Reilly (aka Dr. And if you don’t end up feeling much, that’s OK too - there are plenty of ways to have hot sex that don’t emphasize the G-spot. “Although it can feel pleasurable with firm or intense stimulation, for the best experience, this area should be approached slowly, gently, and gradually increasing in intensity,” she explains. Sex or sex toys that hit the G-spot can feel incredible for some people and not-so-great (or like nothing at all) for others, so if it’s something you want to explore, Switzer recommends taking things slow. “Some find stimulating this area uncomfortable or unpleasant and others may experience an increase in lubrication, intense orgasms, and/or ejaculation (aka squirting).” “This area has a ‘hit or miss’ vibe to it,” sex coach Jenna Switzer tells SheKnows. And it’s not necessarily a pleasure center for everyone. The G-spot is essentially “the backside of your clit,” she tells SheKnows, noting that the term “G-spot” might be misleading, as it can be a larger area (more like a zone). Tara), PhD, a sex and relationship coach, sex expert on TikTok, and professor of relational and sexual communication at California State University Fullerton. It’s important to note that the G-spot is “the whole zone of the top of the vaginal wall, which is basically a part of the clitoral network,” says Tara Suwinyattichaiporn (aka Dr. When stimulated through penetrative sex or play, this almond-size zone swells and becomes tingly. For those who don’t know, the G-spot, or Grafenberg spot, is that magical area located about an inch inside the vaginal opening on the anterior (front) upper wall, closest to your tummy.